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Slowing Down

When life kicks in and you start wondering where the day, week, month, or year went, it is time to slow down.

(C) DeAnn Malone 2019
In our fast-paced society, this can be a real challenge.  Last year, I bought a camera and started taking photography classes.  I hadn’t ever used anything but a point and click camera or a cell phone.  I was intimidated at first by all the setting and rules for when they use them.  Over the course of 11 classes in 13 months I have fallen in love with photography.  And not just because of the priceless memories I have in photos of nature and my son.  What I found was a way to slow down.

You have likely read all the studies on the benefits of meditation.  I tried it, I really did.  I WANT to master it.  But I really struggled.  Yoga has eluded me, too, so far.  I refuse to give up.  But in the meantime, I can go to the local gardens and spend a ridiculous amount of time trying to get a picture of a flower or a butterfly absolutely perfect.  I can block all the other rambling thoughts from my brain and focus on changing settings to try to convert the shot in my head into my camera.

What I learned is that slowing down brings so many positive benefits with it.  While I still want to be more intentional with meditation, I love the sense of calm I am able to get from a few minutes chasing a photo.

What do you do to slow your brain down?

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